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Digital consciousness Digital boundaries 4 minutes · opener

The phone across the room

Card 45 of 52

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A phone and earbuds set beside an open notebook and a cup of coffee

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Without checking, notice whether you know where your phone is right now, and how quickly the answer came.

A phone within sight can keep drawing some of our attention, even face-down and silent, though people experience this differently.

If you would like to experiment during revision, choose one study session when your phone stays in another room, and notice what happens to your attention.

You can choose the time privately now. Twenty minutes is enough.

That’s the practice.

Listen for Some students may touch a pocket or bag without thinking. There is no need to point it out.

The skill of digital boundaries. Setting healthy limits on when and how you engage with digital technologies.

Where does your digital life feel out of alignment with your wellbeing, and what boundary would help you engage more intentionally?

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The skill of digital boundaries

Setting healthy limits on when and how you engage with digital technologies.

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Adapting it

Ages 13 to 15
Suggest a concrete time, such as the first twenty minutes of homework, so the experiment is easy to picture.
Ages 16 to 18
Invite students to pick a subject where divided attention is most noticeable, leaving the choice to them.

If you have longer

There is a full lesson on this skill, about 39 minutes.

Deciding when technology gets your attention
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