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Befriending the wobble

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Take a quiet moment to notice whether there is a wobble somewhere in your body, perhaps nerves about something coming up.

Instead of pushing the feeling away, see if you can turn towards it with a little curiosity. What might it be telling you?

Ask yourself privately whether the feeling is connected to something you care about. "I don't know" is a fine answer.

You do not need to fix the feeling before we begin, and you can bring your attention back to the room whenever you choose.

That’s the practice.

On your own, any time: “One Rhythm You Can Steer”, at recipesforwellbeing.org/framework

Listen for Watch for discomfort or withdrawal. Stillness does not tell you whether a student is engaged.

The skill of breathing. Meeting stress and worry with practices that help you settle, so tension does not stop you from resting.

How might making the breath a more intentional part of your day support you in moments of stress or transition?

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Take a quiet moment to notice whether there is a wobble somewhere in your body, perhaps nerves about something coming up in your work.

Instead of pushing the feeling away, see whether you can turn towards it with a little curiosity and notice what it may be telling you.

Ask yourself privately whether the feeling is connected to something you care about, and let the answer be "I don't know" if that is true.

You do not need to fix the feeling before we begin, and you can bring your attention back to the room whenever you choose.

That’s the practice.

On your own, any time: “One Rhythm You Can Steer”, at recipesforwellbeing.org/framework

Watch for anyone who goes very still, tearful or far away. Do not single them out. Offer a break, or speak to them quietly afterwards.

The skill of breathing. Meeting stress and worry with practices that help you settle, so tension does not stop you from resting.

How might making the breath a more intentional part of your day support you in moments of stress or transition?

Try the interactive practice on this skill

The skill of breathing

Meeting stress and worry with practices that help you settle, so tension does not stop you from resting.

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Adapting it

Ages 13 to 15
Students can give the feeling a shape or colour if that is easier than finding words for it.
Ages 16 to 18
Explain that nerves often show up around things that matter to us, without assuming that is the reason for every student.

If you have longer

There is a full lesson on this skill, about 40 minutes.

Meeting pressure with more support
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